There's no possible way to tell you all that has gone on. I simply don't have the time.
May I present to you a bullet blog - the best I can do for now! 
* Saturday, the 24th, JanaLyn's 7th birthday party was a blast. Lots of children swam in the pool and enjoyed fresh fruit, Chex mix, juice packs, and an ice cream cake. Pictures - SOMEDAY! 
* Sunday, the 25th, we went to Jesse's friend's church. Jesse kind of led the family to seek out a church and they are very proud of their Baptist church. It was the group's 1 year anniversary and they had a dinner after the service. The food was Mexican and I'd tell you about the service and singing, but it was all in Spanish!!!! 
That's the day we stopped by the nursing home to get my mil's laundry and say hello. She fell trying to go to the bathroom with her walker and Jesse helping her. She fell between the wall and toilet stool, knocking the floor bolts off and dumping the entire toilet sideways against the other wall. They assured us they'd monitor her every 15 minutes. She looked awful that day before the fall. Very weak and frail. 
* Monday, the 26th, the girls and I stopped by Stephanie's with 2 gifts, from Jesse and I, and to give JanaLyn a hug on her ACTUAL birthday. Forgot my camera and learned I have no idea how to take a picture with my phone. 
* Tuesday, the 27th, I had a medical check up at a church clinic. They are the ones that first detected the breast cancer and hooked me up with the right people. The doctor has called me and prayed for me over the phone and has supported my family through my battle. She described me as looking in great health! The girls, the doctor, and I held hands and prayed after my exam. We had an opportunity to pray for the doctor, too. 
* Wednesday, the 28th, a new cleaning lady arrived. She's the one who was recommended in the first place. She did a great job - really whipped things out quickly and completely. Unfortunately, she starts nursing classes in the fall, and she isn't sure how much she'll be available after that. 
Also, Jesse's sister in Tacoma (who works for a nursing home) called my MIL's nursing home and demanded she be sent to the hospital for a complete exam. She still had a headache, ached all over (as you can imagine), was weak, and they had done very little for her in the nursing home. She spent the night in the E.R. 
That evening, the girls and I (without Luci) went to COC church with scary dark, DARK storm clouds moving in from the west. Never did rain on us.
* Thursday, the 29th. Rissy had been having a sore tooth problem, so we took her back to the dentist who pulled the wrong tooth in Annamarie's mouth last fall. Both girls told me the new dentist hurt them and lied about it not hurting and begged me not to take them back. So, it was back to the old dentist. He suggested Sensodyne tooth paste. I use it, too. Rissy has her own tube and has been lectured on the cost of it and has been told to use it sparingly! 
* Friday, the 30th, I simply don't remember! I'm sure I played catch up, etc.
We went to see Jesse's mother and she looked all kinds of better. But her bruising was awful. I took my camera and took pictures of all the bruises. Apparently, she was dehydrated and starving in the nursing home. She is too weak to come to our house at this time. I don't have much hope that she will ever be out of a nursing home facility. Makes me feel bad for her. 
* Saturday, the 31st, we went to a church picnic - the church we all attend on Sunday mornings. It was incredibly hot, despite the tents blocking the direct sunlight. We decided, last minute, to go and inquired about what food to bring. We were told buns were needed. Apparently LOTS of people called last minute and were told to bring the same thing. There was on card table full of buns. It was so OVER laden, I took a picture because it looked like a bread line in Russia!
All three of our girls were baptized in the pool, along with the pastor's son, and one other boy. A little girl, who was really way too young, wanted to be baptized and the pastor said she was just "too young," but he "dedicated her life to God" by dunking her the same as the rest of the children and said it would be the church's prayer that she would willingly choose baptism when she was a little older. (she was maybe 3 or 4???) I thought he handled it VERY well.
The house where the party took place is the "ministers of music" and they gave us a *FREE* full size electric piano, so the girls could start piano lessons. There is one key that is stuck and the piano store (one of the only ones in town) said they could fix it for $75. What a deal!!!!

Before going inside the the host's house to cool off, I spent quite a while talking and eating lunch with a girl from church who was fairly new and VERY NEW to me. I'd guess her to be around 30yo.
* Sunday, August 1st, we went to church and came home to eat. That's when Jesse got a call from the pastor telling us the girl I had just met on Sunday (at the picnic) was found dead by her young children in their apartment bathroom.
The police came to church looking for the stepmother, so the children wouldn't have to be taken into protective services. What a shock!
No one knows any details, except her body was released shortly after the coroner's exam, and the funeral is this coming Friday.
* Monday, August 2nd, I cleaned up a bunch of clutter around the house. We have company arriving this week
and Luci will have her 8th birthday and party a few days later. 
Later in the afternoon, Jesse's aunt and uncle (his mother's brother) stopped by our house on their way home to Amarillo. They had come here to check on my mil. They said they didn't think my mil would ever be out of a nursing home and wished she had taken us up on the offer to live here a couple of years ago.
On top of that, I found out she has a very contagious infection and we should have worn a gown, gloves, and mask when we went up to visit her!!!
Aunt Mary has had breast cancer and told me I had no business going up there because of how easily I could catch the same bacteria - gloves or no gloves.
(rolling my eyes! NOW they tell me!) The whole time they sat in our den, I felt sleepy and drugged. I yawned and a few times my head bobbed forward and I realized I had almost dozed off. SO EMBARRASSING!!!!!!! I'm sure my eyes closed several times while we visited. 
I took Luci and Annamarie to their therapy session and hung out (with Rissy) at Stephanie's house. Right before it was time to leave my stomach was upset and I got sick in her bathroom. I apologized and tore up the street to pick up the girls. They were calling me on my cell phone as Rissy was walking into the building to get them. Again, EMBARRASSING!
* Tuesday (TODAY) . . . I was up all night sick and I feel really shaky today.
I'm not planning a spectacular day. I am almost done with my laundry and will make the 2 layers for Luci's *real birthday* birthday cake (cherry chip) and put the layers in the freezer. I'll have to frost it later. I felt incredibly sleepy yesterday and I must have been needing sleep because of whatever bug is eating on me. I plan to lay in bed today. 
* Tomorrow, Wednesday, the new house cleaner is supposed to come back, or at least she said she would try, since it's obvious I need help. 
Either today or tomorrow, I need to get Luci's gifts wrapped. Mostly in gift bags this year, which makes it easier for me. I won't have to bend over the bed to wrap corners, etc. They are in store sacks in my closet and in no type of order. I, at least, need to divide them up, so tomorrow I can quickly put them in sacks - which isn't like I'll have lots of free time tomorrow!!! 
* Thursday, which is Luci's birthday, I have my Zometa IV at 1pm and Annamarie & Rissy will go to the standing therapy session from 1 - 3pm. Jesse will take Luci to lunch - just the two of them (a birthday tradition,
lunch with Dad). Luci wants spaghetti, garlic toast, and salad for her birthday dinner and we'll have the cherry chip cake. She can have most of her gifts, too. The menu turns my stomach, right now! 
* Friday, our company is scheduled to arrive.
Three adults and three children. I need to get the beds ready and figure out how to juggle people, so no one will have to sleep on the floor.
The funeral for the gal from church and a dinner following the service is planned, but I just don't know if I"ll be able to make it, or not. We have a bed for the step-grandma and some clothes and food to get her started. This really caught her blind side. She lives in a one bedroom apartment and their are 3 children. Poor children. They should be starting school in about 10 days! What a mess!
* Saturday, is Luci's birthday party. The party with the decorations, party favors, fancy cake, etc. There are 7 children at that one and I believe Jesse will cook hamburgers outside and we'll keep it as simple as possible. 
Now everyone knows why I haven't written before today!
So much going on and I've needed to be sensible about rationing my time between working and resting. I'm hoping this stomach bug goes away quickly. I may have to stay home from church on Wednesday night and get some extra sleep. That's what I'm craving more than anything else. Sleep . . . AND water.
Be Blessed ~
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