THE SOCIAL WORKER FOR OUR HOME STUDY CAME TO THE HOUSE YESTERDAY!!!!!!!
We hit it off well. In fact, she read the letter of information about us (so the children can read it before they arrive) and it made her cry. She said she does counseling work and sometimes needs to be redirected as to WHY she works with such difficult cases. She has chosen to do home studies, on the side, so all of her work wasn't depressing work with families who are failing. I didn't think our letter was all *that* special, just the truth about us; how we are; and how our house runs. But, you never know how what you say my affect someone else.
I think she stayed longer than she expected. She was surprised, too, that we are JUST NOW getting a home study done. Also, our caseworker didn't send her all of the paperwork he should have. She only had references from 2 people. We gave him a list of 7 people and we *know* he called almost all of them. Anyway, she said she has until Jan. 1st to complete her report and that shouldn't be a problem.
IF we have no children by December 10th, I told Jesse I don't want to accept any until Jan 1st. We don't put up a Christmas tree, do Santa Claus, or any of the other things most people think of when they think of Christmas. I can't imagine landing in a foster home a week before Christmas, spending that time with people you don't know (who dress like Pilgrims!!!) , and *US* having no clue what to buy these new children for gifts (our gift exchange is paltry compared to usual homes, but still????). Foster children and our OWN girls would make things feel very uncomfortable and that isn't our goal.
She interrupted me a couple of times to say (and said once, while I was showing her around the house) that our house reeked (in a good way!) of peace and lots of love. I'm not sure how you "feel" that, but maybe if you are in enough problem homes, you begin to get a sense of homes that are without problems. We were finishing up home schooling when she arrived, and the girls continually asked me questions while I was talking with her and I quickly helped them and continued our conversation. Luci had to be sent to her room once and, of course, a mini-fit ensued. I told her calmly, "That's my screamer." Within minutes, Luci came out, apologized, and said she'd like to try again and our life moved onward. She said (ROFLOL!!!!) I was incredibly patient and our girls (ROFLOL) had excellent manners and were so kind to each other. Again, she said, "So much peace is in this house!"
Yeah, I'm sure she was in the wrong house!!!!
She left, I grabbed a PBJ sandwich and we drove to the post office to mail invoices for Jesse. Then, onto Wally-World. The girls had money burning holes in their pockets and most of our time at Wal-Mart was spent prowling the the toy section for something that $4 and some change could purchase. This was actually part of home schooling . . . I called it, "Economics 101" or "Money can't buy everything!" We spent some serious tracing and retracing our steps up and down the toy aisles. Finally I said we HAD to move on. I pretty much kept to my list of 10 or so items.
We got home and had time to relax before starting dinner which was another simple meal: Tyson's breaded chicken breast strips (with barbecue, ketchup, or Ranch dip), FAMILY SIZE (we ARE growing!)I Velveeta Shells and Cheese, and fresh steamed broccoli. I added chunks of pineapple for those tho felt it wasn't a balanced enough meal without something else!
Moving on . . .
I must have been snoring loudly again last night. From the look of Jeses's pilllow on the guest bed . . .
I've been watching trees lose their leaves to show the rest of the world what an uninteresting fall we have in Oklahoma - at least in central Oklahoma!
We have some leaves collecting around our front door.
And, our neighbor's red tree has lost all of its leaves. That happened very quickly!
My backyard trees are trying hard to change color. It shouldn't be much longer before they are devoid of leaves.
The center green bush must be a late bloomer and a late "UN-bloomer"!!!!!!!!!
At this point, I have more rose hips than roses.
But there are a few insistent coral roses that refuse to yield to the wind and cold.

They remind me of me. I usually don't do anything until I'm good and ready!
The house is pretty chilly in the mornings, and here is where I found Sampson for the past few mornings.
That would be Jesse's closet. He is still moving that blanket from place to place!!!
I heard chatter and found munchkins spread about the house.
Annamarie. Where in the world is she going?
JanaLyn and Rissy were caught in the bedroom hallway.
But, where's Luci?
Stormy found her for me!!!! Still in bed snuggled under her fluffy comforter!
Ends up everyone was going to the formal living room for "school" held by Miss. Bossy (eeerrr, ummm) Miss Rissy.
She decided to spell words and have them tell her what the words were that she had spelled. Of course, her students are two children who can't yet read . . . But, far be it from me to tell someone how to run their school!!!
The tyrannical dictator's school lasted about 5 minutes. I got up and made blueberry muffins and the attitudes of the multitudes changed quickly!
Plans for Today:
* Saturday school. Greek & Latin, Veteran's Day debriefing with picture to color, and Bible.
* I have a social studies books for Luci & JanaLyn - may let them work a few pages in that. Very simple stuff, K5.
* Laundry - I'll try to wash the winter clothes that we will soon need. I'll wash those first.
* Ground beef is out thawing for dinner, my mind needs to create yet another master piece
* Shower and wash my hair
Not too bad of a list, is it? I'll try to read some more. Notice no book name is up on my site yet? I'm still reading my Pathway Publisher's magazines and enjoying them immensely. I think my taking it easy for another day or so might not be a bad idea at all.
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