Month: September 2008

  • 2nd Thursday Entry

    Okay . . . the painting honeymoon is over! 

    Annmarie stepped in paint and it was all over the bottom of her foot.  I told her to jump across the hall to the bathroom to wash it off.  She jumped on the foot covered in paint (sigh).  Then Luci was twirling around and I quickly sent her out of the room.  Chiper was curious - but no way was HE coming in.  Rissy was overly confident (due to her one day's experience yesterday) of dipping the brush tip in the paint and handing it to me on the step stool.  She wasn't paying attention and dropped the brush full of paint on the plastic drop cloth. 

    Note to self:  Stop buying plastic.  Buy old sheets and throw them away after the job.  Plastic sticks to a person's feet.

    I can't believe when I was young I actually ENJOYED painting the "right way."  I caulked all the corners and woodwork, filled holes, pounded protruding nail heads back into the studs and then covered them with putty, and painted to my little heart's content.

    Not so today.  Yesterday was 62 - 64 degrees and I had the window open.  A wonderful breeze came through the window to offset the perspiration.  Today it's near 80 degrees and I've turned down the bedrooms' thermostat to 70 degrees and have the ceiling fan going in the room,.  BUT, it feels as hot as nine hells in there!

    Furthermore, white to "Pastel Jade" isn't a dramatic change and it's discouraging work.

    Someone - ANYONE - with an eye for color, please tell me you can see a difference!

    I couldn't find the box of powdered plaster Jesse found last night.  We decided the patching putty must be long gone.  How careless am I this time???  I used tooth paste to fill two holes where anchors had been, previously.  We're talking about huge holes!


    , , , and what makes me doubly lazy and bad is that my toothpaste isn't even white.  It's Aqua Fresh which is red, white, and blue stripes!!!  I don't care!  Just so the two holes are plugged and I can keep painting.  I'm one and half walls into the job. 

    The part of the walls that the primer didn't completely cover (look at baseboards in the picture above) is being covered very nicely buy this Behr (worth every extra penny) paint.

    HOWEVER . . .

    I think I'd rather be teaching Latin & Greek word roots (a new book I bought for the girls) than painting.  I'm not sure which I'm too old for - Greek & Latin or painting!

    I have no choice - I've committed myself.  And YES, I know . . . I really *should be* committed - SOMEWHERE!

    What was I thinking???

    Okay!  Okay!  Stop feeling sorry for myself and stop prolonging the job! 

    Seriously, does anyone see much of a difference.  Like I said, I guess Forest Green to Jade Green IS the biggest difference, but the Forest Green is long gone.

  • I Feel Pretty Good

    but, not good enough to do a Thursday Thirteen, today.  I'll show pictures, instead. 

    Yesterday is the day I dove into painting Annamarie's and Luci's dark green room.  I had heard nothing but good things about Behr paint (got mine from Home Depot the other day) and the gal in the paint department said the Behr primer was much better than Kilz.  So, that's what I bought.  2 gallons of primer, 2 gallons of light green paint for the girls, and 2 cans of cream paint for another room.  The girls' room will be light green instead of the forest green it's been for 4 years.

    See the wallpaper border?   I bought it when we lived in our very first house and the babies started to arrive.  I made a bumper pad & quilt (with a double layer of ruffled edging - forest green and a pink & cream stripe) and, also, curtains that matched the wall paper.  I never got around to putting up the wallpaper border (something about having several babies to care for at the same time - 24/7!) .  The second house had forest green walls and I STILL never put up the wallpaper border. 

    Finally in THIS 3rd house, I put up the floral border, painted the room forest green with white woodwork, had white eyelet bedspreads with pillow shams, two white dressers with white framed mirrors, and a white curtain rod for the curtains that matched the border.  It really looked nice - all that crisp clean white against the dark walls, and the old crib quilt (which matched the wallpaper border) was folded at the end of one of the girls' bed.

    Then something happen (What? ME redecorate????!!!!) . . . The white wooden curtain rod broke, so down came the floral curtains leaving just the blinds (an ugly window treatment!).  Next, we bought cherry dressers and mirrors and new bedspreads.  Now we had dark green walls with a border that matched nothing.  And, the dark wood of the dressers made the room dark, depressing, and rather tomb-like.

    This is a close up of how DARK our forest green paint was - which used to look great with the white bedspread and furniture, etc.

    The picture also shows all the nicks in the paint where Luci had temper tantrums and kicked the wall.

    So yesterday, I began to prime the walls to receive a new pale green (Pastel Jade) paint.  So far . . . I LOVE BEHR PAINT PRODUCTS!!!  The primer went on thick and hardly dripped (except the few times I wasn't careful) and it covered the dark, dark green really well with one coat.  It took a whole gallon for their room.

    I just noticed the lamp on Luci's dresser.  I also covered a lamp shade with the crib quilt & curtain fabric.  So now, you can see how well the fabric matched the wallpaper border.  The super white spot on the wall is a reflection from a mirror.

    I started out taping the wallpaper bottom so I wouldn't paint it, but decided I had a steady enough hand (I'm both left and right handed) to paint the wall right under the border and get the same results as when I had taped it.  I'll tape the border when the green paint goes on today.

    Someone (LouAnn?????) told me about priming and Behr paint.  BUT, I wonder if she had as much trouble as I did getting the primer washed off of my body!!!!  I painted in an over-sized t-shirt and white scarf and nothing else except underwear.  I had paint on my legs, arms, toenails and fingernails and face.  I washed my hands with soap and water (the primer can says it cleans up with soap and water) and nothing came off.  I used a nail brush.  Nothing budged.  Finally, I used the scrubber side of my kitchen sponge (ouch!) and removed a little bit of the paint.  I'm so glad I had taken off my grandma's wedding band, which I NEVER remove. 

    Last night, I soaked in a hot tub for 30 minutes for my muscles AND thinking the paint would come off more easily.  It didn't.  Not at all!!!  I figured if I shaved my legs, the paint would come off in a zip!  Wrong!  I had to use my nails to peel/scratch the paint from my skin.  Rissy had to come into the bathroom to tell me where the paint was left on the back of my legs and arms.  I couldn't see it, so she scratched it off for me.  When she got to my face and was scratching it off of my cheeks, I was ready to holler, "Alright!  Enough already!"   I'm glad I covered my hair.  It's so thin and fragile, I'd NEVER have gotten the primer out of it without losing my hair!

    Jesse had helped with the final wall - the "easy one" that I had left myself for last, because it had no windows or doors!!!!  Anyway, I was pretty stiff last night and heated up a carton of barbecued beef to put on buns.  Served potato chips and dill pickles with it.  AND, I used paper plates!  Over dinner I said to him, "Didn't I say 4 years ago, when we bought this house, that I was too old to paint and would never, EVER attempt to paint again?"  We laughed.  I was 51 back then, now I'm 55 and rethinking my project I've started.  HOWEVER, most of what I painted last time was the high walls in the main part of the house.  AND, I didn't prime, so the eggplant purple and the girls' forest green walls took FOUR COATS of paint.  Yeah, I was WAAAAY ready to never paint again!

    Truth is, this morning, my right arm muscle is a little tender, but the rest of me doesn't feel any stiffer than it does every day of my life.   I think painting a room with a lower ceiling helped a lot.

    Oh!  I forgot to mention, I moved all the furniture in the girls' room before painting.  I moved their double bed to the guest room at the end of the king bed.  And pulled their full-of-clothes dressers to the center of their room.  Maybe that's why my arm muscle is sore.  Although, I moved the dressers with my hips - my legs still remain my strongest and most limber muscles.  Years of dancing, I suppose!

    Annamarie and Luci will get the king size bed when this is all over with.  I will NOT be moving that mattress alone.  In fact, Jesse and I are wondering how we will get it down the narrow hall and through the girls' doorway.  It's a 22" mattress and VERY heavy.  Annamarie and Luci slept in it for the first time last night and loved having so much extra room.  The king bed will allow them to share a bed as they grow bigger and shouldn't need to be replaced for quite some time.

    (The current "guest room" will be the room for foster children, thus the switching of beds.  It will have a double bed and a twin bed.  IF a family of 3 children moves in, we can quickly order another twin bed and the room will easily hold it.  Foster laws state each child must have their OWN bed - no sharing.)

    Their unmade (but slept in for the first time, last night) new king bed that's still in the guest room.   They said they LOVED it!

    This is the room I'll paint a cream color, very similar to what is already on the walls.  My NEXT project!!!

    And the twin bed, in the guest room. is currently holding the newly washed linens from the double bed and newly washed twin bedding.  Not to mention . . . a few extra pillow shams and stuffed animals!

    Today I will paint the light green color on the walls.  Hopefully, it won't take more than one coat with maybe a second touch up coat here and there.  If it takes a second coat, I will have to wait 4 hours before I apply it.  I will be wearing PANTS (YES!!! ME in pants), socks and t-shirt, with my hair covered again.  If the paint is as hard to remove as the primer, I don't want to even contemplate another scraping job tonight!!!

    Tomorrow is our errand day (therapist, P.O. Box, bank, store, etc.) and on Saturday we will be at our all day foster care classes.  I guess Sunday will be the day we move the king bed back to the girls' room and move the dressers back against the walls.  I'll BUY (I have no time to sew) some sort of curtains for their window.  The king bed only has the pink floral quilt you see in the picture and a white eyelet comforter.  Not sure what color/type of curtains I'll buy.  That's low on my priority list at this moment!!!

    Then, next week, I'll start on the guest room.  I shouldn't have to prime it except in a few places where something was hung at one time (like a mirror or bulletin board) and left black marks on the wall.  Yes, we've lived here 4 years and I've never done anything in that room.  Also, there is a pastel border at the top of the wall that the previous owners had stenciled on.  I hate to paint over the stenciling, that someone painstakingly painted; but, I'll cover that with primer, too, before painting.  That's the room that has one whole wall of built-in cabinets and shelves AND the closet door.  I expect the guest room to be much easier to paint than the girls' room. 

    When downloading the painting pictures from my camera, I found Rissy had been "at it" again, yesterday, with Chirper as her subject!


    I wasn't sure where she found him until I saw the next picture!

    The waste basket under Rissy's nightstand!  And, do I spy sandals under her bed????!!!!

    Tomorrow Chirper will be one year old!  Haven't even considered whether I want to start a birthday party tradition for him.  Jesse-boy got chicken thighs starting on the 10th anniversary of when I received him and it continued until Jan. 26th of this year (9 years of chicken thigh celebrations@!).  I'm not a big pet-party person, but considering Chirper is our miracle kitty, maybe we should do a little something for him.  Stormy's b-day is a few days after mine (in April) and that's when we chose to have our Spring Fling Day for the girls, in lieu of Easter, which we don't celebrate (not the egg and basket Easter Bunny part).  Stormy got to play in the tissue paper from the gift bags!  I may have no energy by Friday and will just buy a toy when we do our grocery shopping.

    Well, if I don't get off of here and move around, my muscles may lock up in a sitting position and that room won't get painted after all!!!  Plus, Jesse bought 2 ten pound chubs of ground beef at Sam's yesterday and they have to be divided into smaller freezer bags.  Oh the work!  It never ends!!!!

    P.S.  Several people have asked about the lawn mowing incident and how things are going with that story.  Last spring, Jesse had helped out Jose's (the injured man) brother (Carlos) when he had a serious situation arise.  Jesse found some documents that belonged to him AND gave him cash to help him out of his emergency - and we forgot about the incident.  Apparently, Jesse's kindness was remembered and Carlos (the brother of Jose) has expressed his opinion that Jose put his fingers under the mower on purpose because he thinks we're rich (yeah - right!); otherwise, his fingers would have sustained more serious injuries.  Carlos doesn't even want Jesse to pay the E.R. bill, but we are going to - because we said we would.  Long story short:  Carlos has threatened to kick Jose out on the streets if he causes our family any more of a financial burden.  He told Jesse the cuts on Jose's fingers were "nicks" and he could use the fingers just fine, now.  So, we're waiting for the E.R. bill and will pay only that.  Thanks for your inquiries and thank you, even more, for your prayers.

  • Our Dog Story Gets Even Better!

    Yesterday was an emotional draining ordeal of a day for me.  I had really used every ounce of energy to get "Lottie" (the lost dog's name) to a safe place.  I'd even considered personally paying a vet, in our small city, to board her for a week until I could get a hold of the owner by leaving a note on their door (since the address was on the dog's tag).

    As you know, we found the veterinarian who normally cares for Lottie and we got dressed in a nanosecond!  I loaded the girls into the Suburban with a/c going to cool it down, grabbed Sampson's leash (that once belonged to a German Shepherd *I* owned), and went to the back to call Lottie.  She was gone!  There was a patch of dirt under the side gate that had been freshly dug and my heart sank.  I went to the street, looked both ways, calling her name, and no Lottie.  I was prepared to drive the streets looking for her when I felt (in my own spirit) God telling me to check the side of the house where the two a/c units are running.  It's shady and the units put off a breeze.  Maybe she didn't hear me call her because of the roar from the units.

    Guess who was there?  Yep!  Good ol' Lottie.  I put the leash on her, while she sat still, and through the gate we went.  She happily jumped into the back of the Suburban when I told her, "Let's go home, Lottie!"

    With the rains moving in, I KNEW I had to find her a safe place on Tuesday.  I took this picture this morning of where she had been sleeping.  The rain isn't pouring, yet, but this area will soon be soggy.

    I took her to the vet.  This was the neatest veterinarian hospital I had ever been to and was super clean.  They had two parrots out of their cages sitting atop the cages.  The girls went around to see the birds when the gal took Lottie back and we waited for our leash.  The girls called to me that a cat was playing on the floor with a lizard.  They motioned for me to come and I, skeptically, went around the desk.  I saw a huge toy iguana (bigger than the cat) having the top of its head licked by this cat, who had her one arm around the iguana to hold it close to her.  THEN . . . the "toy" iguana's tail moved, it's arms spread out, and up (high and stretched) came its head, so the cat could lick the underside of his neck!!!!!!!!!1  Where was my camera when I needed it????

    The vet said there would be no charge to Lotti's family (I was going to offer some money up front to board her) and were SUPER nice.  I left a note for the owner in case she wanted to call and ask any questions.

    We left there and went to Home Depot to (FINALLY) buy the paint for the two bedrooms.  Next was a quick stop at Wal-Mart, where I bought 2 chicken breast strips - my "lunch."  Actually, I had eaten NOTHING all day and it was 2:30pm.  I have hypoglycemia and normally would have never made it that long without eating!  I don't know if it was my adrenaline or God's strength that enabled me to go that long without a bite of food (and still function, I might add!!).  I picked up 2 prescriptions, a few food items, and (mainly) dog and cat food.

    Jesse came home before us and had brought some fried chicken for the girls.  While we were eating  an early dinner, the phone rang and it was Lotti's owner's son.  He said thank you a million times and told me he was living a few miles from our house with his grandparents, while his mom was in Texas.  Lottie had to cross two busy roads to get to us - a miracle that she made it.  He said he was sure his mother would call later, and she did - an hour later.

    Get this, she had been in Texas being "briefed" and was calling me from Lawton, OK at a military base.  She is due to be shipped to Kuwait later this week!  She said her thanks yous over and over and that Lottie was her son's dog that he had gotten from the pound a few years ago.  She said they had another bigger dog that cried the whole time Lottie was gone - cried to the point the police were called out one night by the grandparent's neighbors.  Anyway, the idea of her son losing his mom and dog all in a span of 2 weeks was heart wrenching.  I thanked her for serving in the military and she grew silent.  Stone, cold silent.  I thought I had said something wrong, but she choked back tears and said, "Not one person has ever expressed appreciation or what I do."  We said our good-byes and she said Lottie couldn't have found a better family to end up fostering her - and we hung up.

    Here is part of our wet yard this morning.  I'm so glad Lottie is home and dry.

    But, that's not the end of my day . . .

    Last night, Chirper's  owner finally returned my call.  I figured when I left a message about her caring for Lottie until the owners were found, she simply didn't want to mess with it.   Not so.  She had been in a horseback riding accident.  Apparently, the horse bolted for the barn and she threw herself off and broke her left shoulder in several places.  Had she remained on him, the barn's doorway would have decapitated her.  After I asked, she said she didn't need extra help, her parents are close by, her husband is self-employed and is taking off work and some relative was coming from Florida to help.  She will require several pins in her shoulder and I think is scheduled for surgery today.  She wanted to know about Chirper and apologized for sounding "drugged" but she was on lots of pain medicine, thus the reason she hadn't called - she had been asleep most of the day.

    I told her how well he was doing & how much weight he had gained.  Also, that he was so loved and carried around and kissed by us, that he is no longer the clingy cat we brought home at first.  I told her I take him in once a month to have his nails trimmed and to be weighed (only $4/month!!!) and how our vet commented, "I don't know what you guys do to make your pets continually beat the odds - but don't stop doing what you're doing!"  We pray.  That's all we do that, maybe, other pet owners don't do for their pets.  It's not "us" beating the odds - it's God!  She was so glad to hear some GOOD NEWS and told me to call her in a month to give her another update.  She, too, said, "He couldn't have come to a better home."  She said her good-byes and we hung up.

    Another picture of our soggy day (soon to become MORE soggy) and Jesse's new (but, wet) grill.


    Yesterday I cried so hard when I found that dog's veterinarian.  I bawled loudly and my girls thought someone had died.  I was thanking God over and over again for helping me and for helping me with an ANIMAL!!!!.  I kept asking, "Lord, YOU know how to find this dog the right help.  PLEASE help me to help her."  I can't tell you how many vet calls I made until I finally found the right one.  I was going to quit, when I'm sure the voice of God instructed me, "NO!"  I continued forward with disappointing phone call after phone call.  After finding the dog's vet, I cried while I got dressed, cried while we locked up the house, and was a whimpering basket case - still in shock - that this had worked out for Lottie BEFORE

    today's rains came.

    So what did all of this teach me?  I'm forever looking for the lesson, the reason, the purpose (whatever you want to call in) when it's an experience that only God is capable of creating a happy ending.

    Suddenly I remembered Chirper.  At some point after finding that vet in the phone book, I thought of my lack of faith and God's capability.  My weakness, His strength.   A sick cat with a death sentence (who has been prayed for and even had healing hands laid on his body by me) who is gaining weight and overcoming physical challenge after physical challenge.  I stopped.  I learned, not to doubt that our God cares for animals, too.  He cares a lot!  If He cared about getting a dog home and had sent her to a house that would care for her and diligently try finding her owner - maybe the full impact of Chirper being sent to our pet loving home hadn't been fully considered by me.

    Last night, Chirper's previous owner said on the phone that she felt God had done a huge work by sending me to her house and allowing her to let go of one of her beloved pets.  This was not one of the cats she sells, but her OWN pet that she had a deep bond with and loved very much.

    I contemplated that last night and again this morning.  This is what we do best - help those in need.  Of course, that immediately brings to mind "human beings" only and my mind has never really taken our "helping and hospitality" gift any further.  But why not pets?  Why wouldn't God send animals, that would never have a chance of surviving somewhere else, to our home? 

    FOSTER PARENTS - what does that mean AND what kind of hearts has God created in us?  Taking in the unwanted, the unlovely, the no hope people and animals in this world . . . Are we really equipped?  Or, does God intervene with each individual person/animal brought our way and equip us for that moment???

    I know we feel blessed by caring for others (and animals) and we are happy and cheerful to do so.  I need to think more about the hidden potential God has placed in me and how empowered and magnified that gift could be if I prayed more about God's will in that area of my life.

    With that thought - I leave you and say, "HAVE A BLESSED DAY!"

    P.S.  I'm still having troubles with my computer keyboard not typing all of the letters I hit.  I've dropped the keyboard numerous times and all that happens is it cures an old letter problem, but then new letters cease to work.  Until I buy a more expensive keyboard, please bear with me.  I'm concentrating so hard on not leaving out or typing a wrong letters that I'm missing the obvious - like: Which witch is which?

  • Edit to Earlier Tuesday Post

    I FOUND THE VET CLINIC THAT TAKES CARE OF THE DOG WE FOUND!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    The pound euthanizes animals 72 hours after they are brought in.  My heart was sick as I prayed God would lead me to the right veterinarian clinic.

    When I got to the "W's" I finally got what I had been hoping to hear, "YES!  The dog is our patient and, if you bring her in, we'll keep her until we can contact the owner.  We have LOTS of phone numbers to reach her!"

    I'm praising God for directing me and not allowing me to give up.  I'm in tears.  I just can't explain how happy I feel.

    THANK YOU LORD FOR BEING SO GOOD AND EVEN CARING ABOUT A LOST DOG!!!!!!!!

  • We're All OK, Now

    We have finally gotten used to the fact we are without JoAnn and Aolani. 

    We are also having to make a decision of what to do with the stray dog.  Jesse thinks the family might have moved into our neighborhood and the dog got out.  The address on the dog's tag is a similar neighborhood (house-wise) as ours, and it IS the first of the month - many people move.  They aren't answering the number on the dog's tag.  So, the dog could have been brought to this neighborhood to be watched by a family member or friend.  My last desperate attempt will be to call the phone company to see if that old number has an additional new number in our area.  After that, she will have to be taken somewhere TODAY.  The storms from Gustav are supposed to start this afternoon or tonight and be horrible all through tomorrow.  She just can't stay in our yard without a shelter.  I have tried to contact the lady who sold us Chirper.  She had lots of dogs in her yard and I'm wondering if she'll take this dog.  I'll write a note to the name and address on the dog's tag telling the family where the dog can be found and hope they receive my note.  The idea of taking any animal to the pound kills me.  The only other option is to let her loose in our neighborhood to see if, in fact, she finds her way "home" to a new house in our neighborhood.  I'm uncomfortable with that, too.  Lots of calls being made this morning.

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    Sooooooooooooo . . . change of subject to something less depressing.

    The day before JoAnn and Aolani left, JoAnn wanted Mexican food one last time and to do some more sight seeing.  We had already shown her how our downtown area has changed, but she wanted to see where she lived for fifteen years while married and THAT part of town.   Lots in her old home area has changed.

    Despite the ominous clouds and a slight threat of rain, we decided to go to a restaurant Jesse's friends own and is always guaranteed to serve excellent food.  In fact, our last three foster care classes are at the Midwest City Library - the same city as Los Vaqueros, so guess where we'll be going on our lunch breaks???!!!

    We live close to a beautiful lake, our water supply, and showed that lake to JoAnn.  The first picture is what you see as you come down my friend's (Tangi's) street.  Beautiful on a nice day - cold, choppy, and scary looking on a windy day!

    The first picture is of the dam on the lake side, and the second picture is of the dam on the spillover side.  By tomorrow, with all the rain that's expected, that spillover side will be gushing water and you won't be able to stand down there and fish.  It will be deep, rushing water.

    Midwest City also has Tinker Air Force Base.  I managed to "kind of" get two pictures of some old planes that are anchored down in front of the base as we whizzed by on the highway.

    This is the house where JoAnn lived while married for 15 years.  She took care of her dear mother-in-law until she died from lung cancer.  After that, her husband basically kicked her and Jennifer out on the street with only their clothes and filed for a divorce.  A year after that, JoAnn & Jennifer moved into my house (which is how I got to know Jesse so well, which is a whole different story . . . .).  The old house is now overgrown and not kept up well.  I also took a picture of an interesting sign I found, on a nearby street corner, when we had to stop at a light.  I LOVE interesting signs (can you tell?)!!!

    The closest we could come to the OKC Zoo was the lake where they had paddle boat rides in boats shaped like swans.  The speed limit was 45, thus the blurred picture as we sped by the lake.  All of these following pictures of museums, etc. are in the area where JoAnn used to live.

    In that same area, is the Softball Museum and the Fire Fighter's Museum.

    I'm embarrassed to say that horse racing is huge in Oklahoma (and the nicest race track is located IN Oklahoma City); also, they have legalized gambling casinos in Oklahoma and he lottery.  This casino is attached to the race track building - a huge campus ready to take your money and your whole pay check!!!  Driving into, or out of, our state shows casino after casino with huge major name hotels and restaurants nearby in areas that were once large fields of wheat, etc.  The legalization of gambling at casinos was supposed to help fund our schools and raise teacher's pay.  Not much of that has happened.  And, I have to wonder, did anyone really believe it would helop if the lottery and casinos were leagalized????

    One thing that caught my eye was the lawn jockies outside of the horse racing stadium.  I remember restaurants that had them in California (when I was a little girl), until sometime in the late 1960's.  It was decided to be uncooth and in poor taste.  Of course, in those days, the lawn jockies were all black men in red waistcoats.  Anyway, California deemed it to be a gross display of prejudice and had them removed.  Apparently, Oklahoma is a little behind the times.  At least these jockies had different "colors of skin" and also some women jockies were shown.

    My handsome husband, Jesse, with JoAnn.  Can you "feel the love" and their close bond?  She raised Jesse and those are the only tender moments he has from his childhood.  Their mom was always at work and not so patient when she was home.  I could tell you stories that all of the brothers and sisters have told me - but, I won't.

    We had a wonderfully, delicious meal (as always) at Los Vaqueros and one of the owners picked up our tab!  One of the men that used to be a co-owner, Reuben, helped Jesse out after his horrible accident where he ended up with a plate in his ankle (right before I met him).  Nikki had to make her dad cereal for breakfast and then a sandwich for lunch before she went to school.  She came home and made more sandwiches for dinner.  They were on food stamps and had welfare assistance due to his disability.  They lived in some condos owned by the church, and were allowed to stay there for free.  His wife had just left him and wouldn't even come by to help fix some food.  He was on crutches and had to crawl to the batrroom and then back to bed.  He says he remembers sobbing some nights because he was so helpless.  Nikki told me she remembers hearing her dad cry and felt so sorry for him.  The friend from the restaurant, Reuben, came once a week to take Jesse somewhere - ANYWHERE to get him out of the house.  He would take him out to dinner, etc.  He called all the time to check on him.  The men who own the restaurants are part of Reuben's family and every bit as nice as Reuben.  The bonus is, we've never had a bad meal!!!!  I'm so grateful that this family helped Jesse when no one else was able.

    Now for the mystery pictures . . .  Why are the girls clinging to this large cage?????

    Because someone installed a huge (tall) chain link fence with a roof to house parrots!  I was only able to view one beautiful red parrot (who continued to talk to us, nonstop) and the 3 other blue parrots (equally as pretty) were too high up to see and not feeling as socialable as the red parrot!  There is a table with food and water for the birds and often sparrows and grackles make their way into the cage.  Many birds flock around the outside of the cage, wishing and wondering how to get in!  It must look like a haven to those wild birds!!!

    The girls were infatuated with the talkative red parrot and egged (no pun intended!!!) the bird on with "hellos" and whistles, etc., all the time enjoying the friendly bird's responses!

    Luci, Annamarie, Rissy, and Aolani.

    We ate our fill of Mexican food and I guess it not only increased our waist sizes - but, also Jesse's head.  He took his "goin' out hat" off on the way home and it sat on the top of the dashboard until we got home!!!

    Well, while writing this post, I called the phone company and the dog's owner is one of their customers and they don't show that the people have moved.  And, I haven't heard back from the lady where we got Chirper.  The address is so close to where the girl's therapist is and where Stephanie lives, but I don't know that it would be profitable to drive that far and leave a note on their door.  I'll have to make a decision about this soon.

    Yesterday, I decided to stay home and do all of the laundry (10 loads!!!) and will go today to the post office, Wal-Mart, and do whatever other errands need to be done.  I sure don't want to be out in the storm these next two days.

    I hope you enjoyed the last of my "JoAnn's Visit" pictures!  And, I hope everyone enjoyed their long week-end!

  • We Have A Surpirse Guest

    God sure knows how to flip an upside down mouth into a smile and give us a healing balm of "purpose" in our lives!!!

    We have a triple car garage.  One side has a double door, the other a
    single door and a wall divides the two spaces.  Yesterday afternoon,
    Jesse had both doors open and was working on his lawn equipment on the
    single side.  He said, as he came through the doorway to the double side, he heard heavy breathing - almost like a panting.  Scared the daylights
    out of him!

    Here's what he found.

    Thankfully, the dog has an owner's name, address, and phone number on her collar.  We've tried (last night and again this morning) to call "Cindy" and no one answered.  We figure she went away for the holiday week-end.  For now, the dog is called "Cindy's Dog" because we have no intention of keeping her.  The address is quite a ways from our house and I'm guessing someone in this area was watching her and the dog escaped.

    At any rate, she reminds me of Chirper when he first came to our home.  She won't stop moving, even jumped up to my shoulders and tried to hug me when I went outside this morning to give her fresh water (thus the blurry pictures).

    Ironically, we ran out of dog food yesterday morning, so Cindy's Dog and Sampson are eating cat food until I can get to Wal-Mart later on.

    She has chewed the fur from her lower back (I once had a German Shepherd that did the same thing) and there's no way we can let her in the house - not with two cats and one dog.  I think she's used to being inside, because she whined pathetically this morning when I went out to change her water.

    She's either VERY excited and too nervous to listen, or she just plain doesn't follow the commands of "down," "sit," or "stay."  She smells very "doggie" and I'm super sensitive to stinky dogs - makes me gag.  I patted her a bit and she begged me, with her whine and pathetic eyes, to stay outside with her.

    I hope Cindy arrives home soon to recover "Cindy's Dog" because I don't know what to do with her otherwise.  When looking for a cat (when we found Chirper), even the no-kill shelters were pretty yucky.  I don't want another dog - especially one with an odor.

    I'm glad God sent her right into our garage as a diversion from the sadness of saying good-bye to our recent guests, and He knows we will take good care of her.  Now we are praying Cindy comes home soon to claim her lost pooch!  It's supposed to rain starting Wednesday (Hurricane Gustav) and I hate to put her in a warm garage, even though the temps will go down.

    The rain will be way too heavy to keep her outside without a dog house.