Obviously I have waaaay too much time on my hands today! Here I am, still blogging away! Laundry is getting done and Rissy fixed lunch – hotdogs and leftover pasta salad. Yay! Rissy!
I felt for sure I had talked about my younger years in musical theater and the fact I received my social security card at age 13 in order to be paid and to unable me to join the actor’s union. I re-read my profile just now and I guess I only eluded to the fact I was in theater by the fact under “MUSIC” I stated I was a “walking repertoire” meaning I had been involved in choir or theater most of my life (choir since age 6 and theater since age 8). Then there was the question under “MOVIES” about my friend turned professional – and I said “any movie directed by Kenny Ortega.” And I also, under TV SHOWS, mentioned my passion for American Idol – just because I root for talented people and want to see their dreams come true.
I was pretty elusive now that I re-read my profile. I’m not big on dropping names to influence people because I’ve been around so many “BIG NAMES” in my life. They’re just “people.” Being in a professional theater, during rehearsal times, also gave me the opportunity to see “BIG NAME ATTRACTIONS” who were performing at the same theater in between plays that were also shown.
Names are in bold OUT OF RESPECT *not* to impress!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I guess meeting Jimmy Durante was a highlight. He was such a big personality on TV but in person a very short man with a H-U-G-E nose that had more wrinkles in it than I’ve ever seen in my life. The wrinkles in his nose looked like a road map.
He was traveling with Alan King – a guy that used to perform with a cane and top hat. I can’t speak of his personality, but his stage presence left me in awe as a young child. A great entertainer. Really commanded the audience’s attention and owned the stage when he performed.
Let’s see, who else was someone I remember . . .
While in drama class at same said theater, Steve Lawrence and Edie Gormet (sp? that doesn’t look right) were performers. She didn’t want to mess with talking to a “bunch of kids” but Steve Lawrence came to our front row seats where class was being conducted and apologized for his “tired wife” and stood for what seemed forever answering questions and being an all around nice guy! I really felt bad when their son died some 10+ years ago.
Betsy Palmer – “South Pacific” Met her, wasn’t in the play. Really nice lady.
Jane Powell – “Unsinkable Molly Brown” She’s now doing Polident commercials! She was the sweetest thing. Itty bitty and full of voice, energy, and talent. I really liked her. Either she or Betsy Palmer let me babysit their two toy poodles backstage.
Shelly Winters – A complainer or maybe what is called today a true DIVA. No other comment. An example of what I NEVER wanted to become.
Robert Goulet – OH MY GOSH!!! Gorgeous. Beautiful singer. Nice – Nice – Nice! Backstage, he accidentally blew cigar smoke in my face, causing me to cough. He grabbed my hand and kissed the back of it and said, “Are you alright, sweetheart?” I remember coming home and putting my arm in a sling vowing to never wash my hand or his kiss off of it – not EVER! I was maybe, 11 or 12yo??? Truly smitten!
I’m sure there were many others who slip my mind at the moment (something that happens far too often these days!).
Kenny Ortega and I took tap dancing lessons from the same teacher. I never met Kenny then. I think we met in high school when one school would host a “Summer Music Drama Workshop” for all of the district’s high schools and give class credits, and God knew I needed every extra credit I could get! A good student – I was NOT! I was friends with Kenny and his sister Debbie. Kenny began to produce and direct local theater plays in which I was involved. I don’t know how many plays we did together. He had a dry sense of humor and his sister Debbie was a hoot.
A funny story about Kenny when we were in “The King & I” together. He played the Kralahom (sp??) top servant to the king. Anna had a line as he was coming off of a large ship that had arrived from England and he chose dress rehearsal to set us on our sides laughing until we cried.
Anna: (said with a proper British accent) Any news from abroad?
Kralahom (Kenny): (dipping into his best Groucho Marks posture with imaginary cigar) No. But your father sent a letter!
Anyway, you can imagine my surprise when my Mom called to tell me he had done the choreography for the movie “Ferris Bueller’s Day Off” and “Dirty Dancing.” Then I saw some Las Vega special on TV with Cher’ (I didn’t name myself after her, really I didn’t!) and the dancing looked so familiar to what I had done under the direction of Kenny Ortega. Guess what? He’d choreographed that show, too. Then, Mom told me he was directing “High School Musical,” a show I had little interest in. Anyway, sure enough, on the DVD there is a section where you see him talking and dancing. Same voice, same Kenny – just a little less hair and wearing glasses. I don’t know if he’d remember me or not. I think his sister might because when we were in “Mame” we shared a dressing room space and I made her hair BIG before show time and again at intermission. She played the part of (larger than life) Vera that Beatrice Arthur had played on Broadway. She was so much fun.
Pittsburgh Steelers player Lynn Swan and I DID take tap dancing at the same school and eventually ended up in some of the same classes. Piece of Cherylyn trivia here . . . I hated my birth name (Lynn) ever since I could remember and when the dance teacher said, “Lynn, would you step forward and show the combination of steps I just taught,” this skinny black boy and skinny white girl would step forward, look at each other, and hang our heads embarrassed that I had a boy’s name or he had a girl’s name!!!! I don’t know if that left as much of an impression on him as it did on me, but I feel sure that if I stood before Lynn Swan today (a 100 years later) and did the “Finale” (a dance the whole school sang and tapped to, year after year at the end of all dance recitals) he might have some recollection. Yes, I still remember the dance steps to that one song. How could I forget? I did it for 6 or so years EVERY SINGLE YEAR!!!! Our dance teacher, Les Williams, retired from dancing and became an attorney! I eventually changed my name to “Cherylyn” pronounced like Carolyn or Marilyn. I speak or write to Les Williams occasionally to this day so many years later!
Mary Francis Crosby (Bing Crosby’s daughter) and I took ballet lessons at the same school. We were both half awake during our Saturday morning (I wonder to this day if she is like me, still not a morning person!!!) classes with Mr. Gibson, whom I liked a whole lot more than the weekday teacher – a French lady who beat our fingers with her time-keeping stick when our hands looked like “claws! claws!” (she shrieked those words in a thick French accent) instead of relaxed hands!!!! Mary Francis and I would wait downstairs by a drugstore’s door to be picked up after class. Sometimes her mother (Catherine) picked her up and sometimes the “butler???” who reminded me of a Mr. French kind of guy from that show with the children and Brian Keith – forget the name of the show – but the little girl had a doll named Mrs. Beasley! Anyway, Mary Francis was “normal” and so was her VERY nice mother. VERY unpretentious and down to earth. Sometimes we would sneak into the drugstore to buy candy (one of us stayed outside as a look-out) and we’d share our loot with each other. Oddly enough, she rarely had money, but you should have seen the house they lived in in Hillsborough – same place Patty Hearst’s family lived.
I closed in a show, “The Unsinkable Molly Brown,” on a Saturday night and then moved here to Oklahoma the next day in August of 1972 driving from California to Oklahoma in a 1972 Ford Pinto with no a/c. The Mojave dessert was 103 at 2am and there was a dust storm, so I had to close the vents that were at least circulating the hot air. What a trip! When I moved out for the first time, I didn’t move 20 miles away, I moved closer to 2000 and I was only 19 years old. Such guts, had I!!!!
I did a beauty pageant or two the next spring and never performed or did much again. I taught ballet, tap and jazz for a while when Stephanie was in grade school. I had dance instructions from an older man, Gene Stockwell, who had taught Rita Hayworth and Ann Miller – he always said I had Ann Miller’s dance style, but I’m not sure I’ve seen her enough to know what that means. I performed only one year on stage, but felt rather silly at my age, although no one else thought so.
I had done some photo modeling in California, so had a portfolio, and went to the ONE (and ONLY) modeling agency at the time here in Oklahoma City. They tried to tell me I’d have to pay for lessons after they saw me that first day. Then two days later, I was called to do lunch room modeling and I worked steadily ever since that first day for extra income, while I held an Emergency Room job from 3-11pm.
I ended up working for a man here in Oklahoma that was very (VERY!) wealthy in the oil and gas business. His vision was for natural gas to be the clean fuel of the future. Methane gas was an unlimited resource. He lobbied in Washington D.C. and was friends with all the “famous people” we hear of in world politics and dated those in the entertainment business. He was . . . “interesting” . . . to work for. There’s that word again! Temperamental, but still someone I admired because of his drive and ability to convince people to think bigger than they thought possible. I remembered he had me call a “friend” (a famous piano player) in New York who was hosting a party for the then Russian Premier Gorbachev and wanted me to get him invited to the dinner. I almost died. I can’t imagine calling someone to see if you can get invited to a dinner because you have business/political interests in mind. If I recall, my attempt failed!
He ended up in a relationship for a long time with Rita Hayworth’s daughter Princess Yasmin Aga Khan – a delightfully sweet woman and sooooo refined and classy. She pioneered the research and foundation of the group for Alzheimers because her mother (Rita) was suffering from the disease. She had a NYC apartment next door to her mother’s and saw to her mother’s care and had round the clock help for her mother. A VERY devoted daughter. That romance eventually fizzled, like so many of the others before.
I’ll tell you the worst thing I ever did for selfish gain by my using people. Stefanie Powers (whom my first daughter is named after) saw some pictures of same said boss in an equine magazine. He had race horses in KY. Anyway, her secretary, Jan, called me to tell me Stefanie was interested in meeting my boss. At the time, Stefanie was doing the show “Hart to Hart” with ROBERT WAGNER – MY heart throb since “It Takes a Thief” days in junior high. My scheming mind thought, “A ha! If I can hook them up, she’ll come here. Then, I’ll get to meet her AND ask her if she would introduce me to Robert Wagner.” Ah, yes! Devious me!!! I went to my boss personally behind closed doors with Stefanie’s message and he informed me he had no idea who she was . . . and went back to reading. I persisted (something you DIDN’T do with my boss when he dismissed you). I convinced him he was missing someone fantastic and so he agreed to call her back. I left his office with the closed fist jerk down saying, “Yessssss!” to myself!!!! I called Jan and told her it was thumbs up, and soon they were calling each other AND dating. I WAS *SOOOOO* CLOSE TO MY GOAL!!!!!! Then he jilted her (one of his bad traits) and my heart fell. I just knew I’d get to meet Robert Wagner!!! Ends up my boss owned property in Aspen, CO that backed up to John Denver’s house (I didn’t care about him!) and Jill St. John’s house. And . . . GUESS WHO *she* was dating???? Robert Wagner!!! I immediately tried to become chummy with Jill St. John whenever the opportunity presented itself. I hate to end my story on a “downer” but my meeting Robert Wagner never happened. Maybe I would have been disappointed, anyway. How’s that for sour grapes???!!!! LOL
One last interesting person I will talk about his George Stephanopolis (again sp??). My boss became “friends” with him at the beginning of the Clinton campaign when George was working for the campaign and still had a goofy look with thick black plastic glasses. My boss wanted to be “friends” with whoever was going to be in the White House so he could push his natural gas beliefs in Washington. Notice how I’m beginning to use the word “friend” as a tongue in cheek word? Who would have thought George would rise to what he has become today???!!!!
I tell these things not because I want anyone to be impressed with whom I’ve rubbed elbows. That doesn’t really matter. I was mostly impressed by the facts of what I learned. When you are jilted – no matter what a big “star” you are – it hurts. When your mother has Alzheimer’s Disease, all the money in the world can’t keep your heart from breaking as she dies before you. When you have yachts and political connections and private jets, and people clamor after you for your autograph . . .
When you are a famous choreographer and your Aunt Shirley dies (the person who was there at everyone of your early teen performances) – it kills you that death, indeed, is so final.
You still are susceptible to the flu and vomiting. You can catch bronchitis, pneumonia, AIDS, or break a bone.
You can have children that are distant to you because you’ve been so busy and ignored them all their life.
You are still lonely when you walk around your large expanse of a home with indoor pool and marble floors hearing your footsteps echo and realizing you are in fact – ALONE.
How horrible when you can’t know who you can really trust, who your friends are, or who just wants you for your money or your influential position to exploit you.
It’s a tragedy when there’s no security in anything except your power and fame, which are forever fleeting . . . .
Especially, when you don’t need God because you can buy almost anything . . .
To any of you who have ever wanted more than what God has given you in life – think again. Grieving while vacationing on the Riviera beaches is just as heartbreaking as grieving in your own kitchen. God made people the same: emotional people with feelings, whether we like it or not. That’s why we are not to build up our treasures here on earth.
God knows what He’s talking about when He speaks of those things rotting.
They do.
And they will.
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