Month: June 2008

  • Second Monday Entry

    Luci's appointment this morning went well.  He was SO PLEASED to hear she was a totally different person since we tried her old pills in the morning instead of bedtime.  He said he has seen this happen before, where they hit on the right medication and voila!  He also said he felt prayer (shocked to hear this part from this particular doctor!!!) had played a big part and the Holy Spirit was guiding Luci.  (REALLY shocked to hear him say that)

    We went to Wal-Mart (yay! - NOT) and picked up several packages of frozen chicken breasts, an extra litter box & pooper scooper, and lots of litter.  I need to dump the litter in the boxes tomorrow, sanitize the litter boxes, and fill with fresh CLEAN litter.  Hopefully, Chirper's worms are a thing of the past.  All pets will be treated again for worms in 3 weeks.  Also picked up 2 coffee cakes and two loaves of bread.

    THEN, we arrived home, emptied our things into the freezer and ON THE INFAMOUS BAR in my kitchen!  Took a restroom break, washed our hands, and headed out to Chili's for lunch.  On the way home from Chili's, I had enough time to stop and get my bil some sweets from a place he likes here in Oklahoma.  His birthday is July 5th.

    We returned home to brush teeth, take another restroom break, wash hands, and then head out to MY doctor appointment.  My blood pressure is still high (in my opinion) but the doctor said it wasn't considered high at all.  I have gained 5 pounds since last December.  I haven't changed anything in my diet and, in fact, have become more active again.  He said the pills I take (anti-anxiety/anti-depressant) can easily cause a weight gain and he thought 5 pounds wasn't enough to even discuss.  I just knew my clothes felt a little snug around the waistline.  I'll go back in the morning for my blood work - the same as I had anticipated . . . thyroid and triglycerides plus liver profile to make sure the pills I take aren't "toxic" I guess!!!

    We're home now with a 1 1/2 pounds of ground beef staring at me and me being clueless and without motivation to make it into some sort of dinner for us!  I'm thinking something really easy like ground beef mixed with macaroni & cheese, some chili powder and a can of tomato sauce.  A type of goulash, I guess.  Everyone liked it when I made it up a few weeks ago, so why not try again?!!!  I sure don't feel like cooking!

  • Back to Weekly Life

    This will be a
    disjointed day and I'm not planning on accomplishing much house work -
    although, if I could pull myself out of my not-awake-yet stupor, I
    COULD be doing some laundry at this early hour!!  Jesse just left for work, Luci
    is awake, and Rissy just waddled down the hall to say good-bye to her
    dad.

    Luci has an appointment at 10:30 with the doctor who dispenses her
    psych prescriptions.  I have a 2:30 appointment with my own doctor to
    see how I'm doing and probably to check my thyroid and triglyceride
    levels.  I'll have to go back for the lab work tomorrow morning, as
    there is no way I can fast until 2:30 without my blood sugar dropping
    dangerously.   I wouldn't be able to drive.

    A 10:30 and 2:30 medical appointment looks like us girls might qualify
    for lunch out - and I'm not talking McDonald's again!!!!  Maybe
    Chili's.  That seems to be the most popular vote among us each time! 
    I also have to make a dumb Wal-Mart run to pick up some frozen chicken
    breasts.  I can't believe I ran completely out, since all we eat is
    those and ground beef!!!!

    We quit eating pork and shellfish about 3 years ago.  I read "The
    Maker's Diet" and decided the foods that were forbidden in the old
    testament tended to all be scavenger-type animals and (since we are
    what we eat) maybe those items weren't as good for us as we are led to
    believe.  We don't believe it's a *sin* to eat those things (I don't
    want to mislead anyone) but we did get the impression that God's
    original diet of "clean" foods might still apply today, as far as the
    most healthy and non-healthy meats we eat.  I mentioned to Jesse,
    yesterday, that I think we need to consider adding pork back into our
    diets (maybe 3 times a month, or so) because of pork prices being so
    cheap at times and the cost of everything else being so high.  We
    wouldn't add the stuff with sodium nitrate (sausage, bacon, etc)
    because of the cancer causing agents in it, but a pork roast or lean
    pork chop wouldn't kill us and might help with the budget.  Probably a meat pizza with Italian sausage and pepperoni once a month wouldn't kill us either.  Taco or barbecued chicken pizzas just don't taste "American" to me!!!!

    Speaking of grocery budgets, I'm beginning to think of more things to do
    with potatoes and different shaped pastas.  Even though mostacioli
    (sp?) is so similar to spaghetti (I use the same sauce &
    seasonings), because it's baked and I add American cheese throughout
    (like lasagna layers) it tastes different from my spaghetti recipe. 
    Also, I've been thinking of making pasta salads with chunks of chicken
    added (no one will eat tuna in our house except me) - but I would use
    less chicken than I use when we fix JUST chicken for a meal.  We are a
    meat eating family and cutting meat from a meal would be sorely
    missed!  So, I think stretching the budget with potato or pasta is the
    way to go.  That's only good until they raise the price of those items,
    as well!!

    Have no idea what's for dinner to night.  NOT chicken!  That's for sure!

    Chirper slept with me last night (just what I have been hoping he'd do)
    and laid atop my right shoulder with his little head on part of my
    pillow.  I remember at one point in the middle of the night, he became
    playful.  He stood on my chest, purring loudly, and fell sideways on
    top of my face.  I woke up to furry ribs in my mouth and scooted him
    off.  The fact I woke up was like a direct issuance of a play permit! 
    I refused to move any more and he eventually settled down on my
    shoulder and pillow again.

    We went to church at Whispering Pines (COC) yesterday morning.  Then ate lunch at Golden Coral (an all you can place, for those of you who aren't familiar).  We came home and were so sleepy.  I actually slept (you KNOW that's weird for me) for an hour with Jesse.  We woke up and were waiting for someone to come help us set up a bookkeeping system for Jesse's business on our computer and Jesse was still a little drowsy.  Here's what I found going on behind my back!!!

    Jesse & Chirper needing more sleep!

    Chirper perches on our shoulders like our cockatiel.  Maybe he's more of a chirper-bird than cat?????!!!

  • Quick Update

    The DHS interview went VERY well, yesterday evening.

    First of all, the man doing the intake had had a brain tumor some years back and surgery.  He had been given a 5%, or less, chance to live.  After surgery, a facial nerve had been affected and he was paralyzed on one side of his face and hearing lost in that ear.  He said he had prayed before surgery and his surgeon even stopped to pray with him before the surgery.  He had been the minister of music at a church for 23 (maybe he said 32) years and they fired him because his face is slightly distorted and he was slightly tone deaf - but mainly because he looked "unsightly" standing up front directing the choir and orchestra!!!!  He over heard the "higher ups" people talking about him when they thought they were alone.  Can you BELIEVE that???!!!

    Anyway, he had a degree in child psychology and began to work for the state in Child Protective Services.

    He was so nice to us and so pleased with our house, what we had to say to him, and how our girls behaved politely and nicely while he visited.  When he left, he said he was going to try to rush our home study through this next week AND would order and send us fingerprint cards for criminal history, as well as run our background checks and get us signed up for 4 Saturday classes starting the beginning of August.

    He also he was going to plead with the office to let him be our caseworker - the one who will place children in our home and supervise them, etc.  He also told me to ask the home study person to please allow us to use the girls' current therapist rather than take them to this place we've had a bad experience with (counseling wise) in the past.  He admitted he had a low opinion of that counseling center as well.

    Things couldn't have gone better.  He said not only did the gal in this new county we now live (who interviewed us when we first moved to this house) give us an excellent recommendation, our thick file from Oklahoma County reflected the same.  He was anxious and ready to jump hoops to get us through the process as quickly as possible - which is NEVER quick when dealing with a state agency.

    I had really hoped to be ready to go BEFORE a sibling group of children started school and then not only were brought into the foster system, but possibly also had to changed schools at the start of the year.  Even though things won't be as *I* would have thought were the best for the child, I told him we would just give this to God and believe His timing was more perfect than our own well thought out plans.

    Thought some of you might like to hear how well things went for us.

  • Relaxing Saturday

    This has been a relaxing day.  Yesterday, not so much.

    Yesterday I ran quickly, making use of every minute of time and accomplished a lot of errands.  We arrived at Stephanie's apartment early and she said she wanted to stay the night to do laundry.  I told her I'd take it with me, and she left me her house key to lock the door when we left.  I realized she couldn't stop by her house after work because *I* had her key.  So I ran the key to her at work first, then took Luci to the therapy appointment.  I decided not to split the appt. between the 2 girls.  I wanted the therapist to see how well Luci was doing.  LIKE A TOTALLY DIFFERENT PERSON!!!  Amazingly different!!!!

    When Luci went into the session, I loaded JanaLyn and my remaining two up, again, and we went to the bank to cash Stephanie's paycheck for her AND get some cash for me.  On the way back I filled up my tank.  It was only down a fourth of a tank, and I gave them $40 (pay in advance) thinking I'd surely get change back.  No such luck!  I'm sure I came close to topping the tank, but it easily swallowed my two twenty dollar bills!

    We picked up Luci and, next, went to Wal-Mart.  I told Stephanie I'd do her shopping for her and she gave me a small list.  I don't think it took us more than 45 minutes in the store, but you have to allow for looking for a space to park, checking out and paying for the groceries, unloading groceries into the vehicle, and then the time it takes to get OUT of the parking lot.  So actual time on Wal-Mart's property was closer to an hour and fifteen minutes!  By 4:30, we were heading home. 

    Stephanie and I had a nice visit last night and JanaLyn, as always, enjoyed her time with the girls.  They slept in the guest room and Stephanie said Chirper was up against her all night cuddling.  He once woke her up by nuzzling her cheek.  He settled down and she went back to sleep.

    This morning, everyone pitched in to straighten the house and Stephanie & JanaLyn went home with clean laundry and groceries in hand.  Now we are waiting for the gentleman from DHS to call for our walk through and interview.  I've already filled out all of the paperwork, so he said it should only be 30 minutes spent in our house.  Jesse is helping our friend 3 streets north lay sod.  Turned into a much bigger job and he was glad Camilo and one of Camilo's relatives came to help. They knew more about how to do things properly.  5 TONS (!!!) of topsoil after rototilling the backyard, then leveling it, and NOW (finally) they are almost ready to start unrolling the tons of sod!!!  He said to call him and he'll be home when the DHS person arrives here.

    Since I have the time, I thought I post some "I think we'll just say we're friends, now" pictures!!!

    It all started when Chirper crossed the invisible "that's my blanket" line that Stormy had set.

    Stormy watched for a while thinking, "He'll jump down soon.  After all, that *IS* my blanket."  She was twitching with anxiety while she looked at her sacred blanket and a stranger laying on it!!!!  Then decided to do something about it.

    Although I had the camera and was shooting right and left, I kept an eye on them both of them, so no one would get hurt!  She circled behind him and he rolled over - ready to play with her!

    Suddenly, it became a game!  He jumped to the fireplace and then over her head, landing on the sofa peeking down at her.

    She jumped up and he went back to the ottoman with her blanket on it.  And, friends they've become!

    She's either given up defending her territory or decided he isn't so bad to have around, after all!!!!

    They've been playing a bit and taking turns chasing and being chased.  So, I think it will all work out in the end!  And, we'll all be one happy family - despite the "cold & evil stare" start!

    Guess I'll go enjoy some quiet minutes of my own before I have to be sociable!

  • Friday Finale

    Believe it or not, I only had ONE major change of plans yesterday and the whole day was pleasantly smooth.

    Being the ever efficient person I am (NOT) these days, I had written down on a piece of scrap paper the days (Stephanie's work schedule) I needed to watch JanaLyn and even carefully copied it to my appointment book calendar.  Then read the calendar wrong - a day off.

    I thought I was watching JanaLyn Friday and Saturday, but Stephanie called yesterday morning asking if this was the day *I* was picking up JanaLyn or did she need to bring her to me.  What!!!?????!!!!!

    So, that was the big change in yesterday's agenda.  She was good as gold and the my girls all played nicely without arguing or running through the house like wild animals.  We made grilled cheese sandwiches and sliced apples for lunch.  They watched Little House DVDs in the den or did artwork at the kitchen table in the afternoon.  ALL in *one* place of the house and where I could keep an eye on them.

    Stephanie met Chirper in the morning and came in, after work, immediately seeking him out to hold him.  This is what happened next.  My first born with my newest baby!

    Thinking this was too cute to not capture on camera, I covered them up.  It only momentarily bothered Chirp.

    But, as you can see, my covering them didn't bother him for long.  He settled back in for his snooze with Stephanie.

    I did Jesse's laundry and actually got around to the sheets on our bed.  I fixed lunch (uninterrupted!!!) and played (this time for real!!!) on the computer same games, etc.  We had chef salads for dinner with fried chicken strips.  Yum!

    Today's agenda:

    Go to Stephanie's house around 1:00p with lunch.  She has to be at work by 1:30p and we have to be at the therapist's office (just down the street from her) at 2:00p.  I figured we could all eat lunch to kill time, take bathroom and hand washing trips BEFORE leaving, and then head to the doctor's office.  After that, we'll come home and Stephanie will come get JanaLyn when she gets off work around 6p. 

    No great plans for the day other than needing an idea for tonight's meal.  I may ask Stephanie to stay for dinner - depending on what I decide to make.  We had a surprise set of storms move through this morning and that's put Jesse a little behind.  So, I don't know if he'll be here by dinner time or not.  I hate to fix a "great meal" and them Jesse have to eat it warmed over when he finally makes it home.  That's why I'm rolling things around in my head right now.  Chicken is sounding like the best idea.

    DHS (foster care unit) called yesterday.  The caseworker wants to come out Saturday.  He said he doesn't work on Saturday, but was making an exception based on Jesse's work schedule.  He found our file.  It was in their office all along, but at the desk of the gal who formerly came out a couple times to review us and our home.  He said she told him we were an exceptional family and home - one of the best.  Unfortunately, we're still going to have to go to the foster classes and all-day anger management class - despite the fact we are excellent!!!  I knew this would happen if we closed our home, but Luci was really giving us problems at the time and I seriously didn't think we'd ever be able to foster again - not with the time it took to deal with Luci.

    Anyway, I guess tomorrow afternoon we'll have our interview and inspection.  At least we have milk in the refrigerator this time!  Since I made the girls do slave labor on Wednesday, the house just needs a quick go over in the bathrooms and *I'll* do the vacuuming this time!

    I'm gonna get movin' now, have a great day!

  • Thursday Thirteen #27

    Thirteen Things
    About
    MY WEDNESDAY (YESTERDAY)

    Would it be accurate to say I may have cursed my Thursday Thirteen with my Wednesday comment of what today's topic might be? Read my list of "Thirteen" and see if, maybe, I should learn to keep my mouth shut!!!

    1.  Yesterday, I asked, "What could be worse than a stay at home Wednesday becoming a HAVE TO go somewhere Wednesday?"  I found the answer . . .

    Having to go somewhere early in the morning with 3 children.  I am NOT a morning person and brain dead (oops, better watch my words!) until 10am.  The vet wasn't in yesterday (just the receptionist), so I HAD to go in the morning to get the de-worming medicine.  I came immediately home.  However, I think the fact that all of us had to be dressed and somewhere early, threw off the rest of my day at home.  Read on to see the details.

    2.  With my nerves all a-jangle, I came home from the vet, medicated 3 pets, and then decided today was the day I was going to sit at my desk and get Jesse's bookkeeping caught up.  The old paper ledger sheet kind of bookkeeping.  All handwritten ledger sheets, with copies of old checks (4 copied checks to a sheet) being entered in date and alphabetical order.  "Copious copying" is what I call it.  I prayed first that the Lord would get me through this BIG job.

    3.  The girls were SO LOUD and full of energy (like wild animals) that I sent them out to the backyard with squirt guns.   I could barely concentrate or *see*.  I think yesterday will be the day in history that I made the decision to keep my "reading glasses" at my desk.  I rarely use them, but found yesterday to be an eye opening experience visually (maybe I should say eye closing, as I had to use my grandmother's magnifying glass to read the copied checks)!

    4.  I took a break and started to fix bologna sandwiches (gag) for lunch and make some punch flavored Kool-Aid.  Luci came out wearing dry clothes and I realized her wet clothes were mysteriously absent and NOT in the backyard drying with the other girls' clothing and towels. 

    5.  I stopped making lunch to check her clothes hamper and (sure enough!) found she's been putting wet clothes and towels in there for 3 days.  I taught her about mildew and mold.  I took the time to quickly throw everything in the washer to clean her laundry before mildew began to grow and permanently stain all of her clothes (albeit they were backyard "play clothes").

    6.   I returned to the kitchen and resumed making the sandwiches and passed them out.  I turned to the Kool Aid making and realized it was Kool Aid probably leftover from last summer.  The 2 packets felt like the powder had compressed, so I ripped off the tops and stuck them way down into the juice container and knocked them back and forth against the inside of the container to dislodge and break up the clumped together Kool Aid (remember, PUNCH flavor - just like Hawaiian Punch).  Dust flew up from the container's bottom and I gently blew the air around me so the dust didn't gag me.  I turned on the cold water, ran my hand under it to be sure it was cold before filling the container, and found I was "bleeding" everywhere.  My knuckles, cuticles, the creases in my palm . . .   I gasped and sucked in my breath as I quickly looked for the source of the bleeding.  There was LOTS of red dripping everywhere and I was perplexed, as I hadn't used a steak knife or anything sharp to make the sandwiches and nothing on my hand hurt.  It sprang to my attention that it was only Kool Aid dust (sigh of relief).  I finished mixing the Kool Aid and wiped the counter top with my white washcloth.  MORE red!  Dust had spread everywhere!  That took a while to clean up.  I had a towel placed on the bar because I was going to hand wash some dishes after lunch and every piece of the counter top had a fine red powder from my gentle blowing.  What a mess!

    7.  I gave the girls chores to do to keep them busy.  It was too hot to go outside.  Annamarie wanted to use the glass cleaner AND wipe down the knick knacks through out the house.  Rissy wanted to dust the wood furniture.  Luci wanted to vacuum.  I started BACK doing Jesse's books, determined to forge forward and finish the job that day.

    Luci was vacuuming the formal living room (behind me) when a sickening "something is stuck" sound came from the vacuum.  I stopped my bookkeeping and turned my attention to the vacuum cleaner.  She had sucked up the stylus (pencil thing) that was *once* attached to Rissy's computer game - a Leapster (not cheap).  After taking the vacuum cleaner apart, I found the pencil attached to a frayed cord, hung up in the beater bar.   I cleaned the beater bar of all the hair and other such stuff before reassembling the vacuum.  I gave Luci a broom and told her to sweep the kitchen floors, instead.  That's when I noticed Annamarie standing in the foyer wiping the same glass vase (Lori K, you're familiar with that vase - the one with the glass marbles!!! LOL) over and over and over and over in the same spot with glass cleaner and a paper towel.  I corrected her and got her moving forward.  Rissy (once more) came to my rescue and said she could finish the vacuuming because she had dusted all the wood in the house.

    8.  Once more, I returned to Jesse's books and the phone rang.  It was Jesse.  He'd ruined a tire on his riding mower (a necessary piece of machinery yesterday, as he was doing some commercial properties) and he needed me to copy down the tire size and call two places for prices of tires.  Of course, one place was hard to locate in the phone book.  It took me a while.  Meanwhile I had to ask Rissy to discontinue vacuuming, so I could hear when I made the calls. 

    9.  I made my calls from my bedroom (for the sake of quietness in the background) and Luci interrupted me in the middle of one call to inform me (assuring me first, there was a "REAL" problem), "You know Annamarie's chair in the kitchen?  Welllllll, when you pull it back (over the tile) it makes a really, really loud sound and hurts my ears.  Soooooo, I was wondering . . ."  I cut her off with a glare and a pointed finger at my bedroom door!  She turned and left the room.

    10.  I called Jesse back with the tire prices.  I started back to my bookkeeping task ONCE AGAIN and told Rissy she could resume vacuuming.   Then I remembered those dishes I'd never washed after lunch.  It bothered me and I figured if I did them, I'd be better able to concentrate on the books.  I quickly did the dish washing job and laid the things on the towel I had already prepared on the bar BEFORE LUNCH.  Then *I* resumed my bookkeeping job.

    11.  FINALLY, I was finished with Jesse's books.  They were all set up and current.  I took a bathroom break, blew my nose, and (to my horror) found my nose was bleeding.  And bleeding A LOT!!!!  Before I began the "pinch technique" to stop the bleeding, I looked once more to see which side.  Sigh of relief.  I wasn't bleeding after all, remember the red Kool Aid dust?  Apparently, I had breathed in more than I'd realized.  "All is well.  All is well," I repeated to myself.  At that point, I told the girls to be quiet as *I* needed some "alone time" and quiet in the house.  I assigned them to quiet play with each of them in a different room.

    12.  I was going to sit down for a bit to watch "Jeopardy!" which is a re-run at 3:30p and a current program at 4:00p.  One hour of repose!  It sounded like pure bliss.  AND, I already had dinner plans - spaghetti.

    That's when I remembered the 20 lbs. of ground beef I'd bought at Sam's the day before that needed to be repackaged.  Sigh!  I went to the garage refrigerator to retrieve the two chubs and brought them to the kitchen bar.  The dishes would need to be put up (the ones drying on the towel) first, so I would have room for the meat chore.  As I picked up the dried dishes, I saw a pink towel underneath.  It had formerly been a white one with widely spaced blue stripes.  Kool Aid dust that had been activated into a red dye when the wet dishes touched it!!!!  At least the towel is over 10 years old, but still, one of my favorites.  I put it in the stack of "to bleach whites" and began the meat division.  I continued to say, "I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me," as I felt my own strength ebbing.

    I only caught 45 minutes of "Jeopardy!" and even that break was interrupted when I realized that the dishwasher was full of clean dishes.  I asked Annamarie to please empty it.  She did by putting everything on the counter tops for me to put away.  That's our way of dealing with hard to reach cabinets.  Then, it was time to start dinner.

    13.  I told the girls I still needed them to go to separate rooms and read or do something quiet.  My nerves and body felt way past the point of over-stimulated and I needed to be left alone to cook dinner.  One by one, the girls felt compelled to come out and check on the spaghetti dinner's progress.  Feeling somewhat guilty, I sent each one back to their "quiet place" and tried to concentrate on boiling pasta, browning meat and flavoring the sauce correctly, as well as, make garlic Texas toast in the oven without burning it.  Still more visits from children with questions & comments about dinner.  Still more sending children away from my kitchen, a space I was beginning to guard, like a lioness with cubs guards her den.  Finally, I called them for dinner. 

    Annamarie repeatedly told me she liked "ba-sgetti" and it was a favorite meal.  Repeatedly.  Repeatedly.  Repeatedly!!!  The wrongness of the word just rubbed me wrong (I guess you could say) and I stopped dishing up plates of food and turned to her.  "Spa-ghetti," I emphasized and repeated over and over, until she got the "s" in the front of the word.  I decided to eat my dinner at my desk alone.  No sense in making them not talk or enjoy their meal just because *I* was having a not so great day. 

    I was enjoying the solitude at my desk when Annamarie came to me with an empty plate and said, "May I have more SPA gehtti, please?"  She now was saying "SPA" (as in a place where they give facials, body wraps, and pamper you - something I was in dire need of receiving) and emphasizing the "SPA gehetti" over and over, pleased with her accomplishment.  I sighed, feeling beat up and worn. 

    I got up from my desk chair, smiled, and said, "Sure honey!"

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    I know if Jesse had asked the girls what Momma did all day, they would have told him, "She sat at the computer all day because she was in a bad mood and made us do all the housework."

    And, if I hadn't written this down, I would have to say (going by appearances), it looked that way to me, too!!!!

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  • Wednesday, Worms, & Work

    Skip the first paragraph if you haven't had breakfast . . .

    From the title, I guess it's obvious, Chirper has worms.  The vet didn't see it in his exam (microscopic sample) on Saturday.  I've suspected it because of Chirper's small size and upset stomach.  He FINALLY went #2 again for the first time and I seized the litter box before he could cover things up.  There it was!  I called the vet and they said I could come in and get a liquid that would immediately cure him.  I'm so glad he's been quarantined and hasn't easily made friends with Stormy.  Sampson and he have sniffed noses.  I'll get online and do some research.  I know it's contagious but don't know how it's spread.  I might treat Sampson and Stormy at the same time - just to be sure.  I think it's only $3.00 per pet.

    So, my stay at home Wednesday has turned into a go someplace I hadn't planned Wednesday.  I need to dust, vacuum, sweep the kitchen, and clean bathrooms when I return and my housework should be done except for mopping the tile.

    It's been so hot, it's hard to be motivated in the afternoons.  We try to keep the air conditioner set at 73 (72 at the lowest) degrees, but our house is poorly insulated, the windows aren't the best, and I'm always hot these days, anyway. 

    I DID go to my 3 errand places yesterday.  I was so glad I got everything done.  We left at 11:45am and went to PetSmart first and got the name tags for Sampson & Chirper and an itty bitty blue collar for Chirper.  They greeted us like we worked there.  Sad when you go someplace so often,  they KNOW you!  (even Wal-Mart greeters *know* us!!!)

    Next we went to Wal-Mart since that was going to take the longest and I didn't want hamburger meat sitting in the car for an hour!  And it did (take the longest).  I got snacks at the deli.  Chicken strips and a "handful" of large cut fries.  That made the girls happy and the drinking fountain was their "drink!"  I assured them, we'd eat a real lunch later.  Well, as always, there's just no such thing as a quick grocery trip through Wal-Mart and, AGAIN, as always, we needed to make a bathroom stop at the back of the store.  $188.00 later . . . we left to go to Sam's.

    I tried to be quick, but Sam's took longer than I had wanted it to.  I think the square footage of Wal-Mart and Sam's might have something to do with the length of those trips!  How can you walk 10 miles within a store and it NOT take a while?!!!  I got 2 chubs of ground beef and some sirloin steaks and the girls got a free cookie from the bakery, which is next door to the meat department.  Actually, the bakery lady came seeking us out in the meat department and said she had prepared 3 cookies for my girls, but we never came to the bakery area.  That killed my plans for a healthier lunch choice.  FRIED chicken and FRIED potatoes with a sugary cookie!  I couldn't find Jesse's water ANYWHERE (yes, I walked 10 miles through Sam's looking for it) and asked UP FRONT where it was kept.  They directed me to THE BACK where I hiked AGAIN and found the bottled water next to the meat department and bakery (sigh!!!).  I picked up 4 cases.  That's all I figured I could hold in the back with my Wal-Mart purchases.  Oddly enough, that bill was $88.00.  Remember? $188.00 at Wal-Mart?  I know, weird, huh?  The girls needed ANOTHER drink and we hiked over to the fountains before hiking back to the front door.  It was 2:00.

    The girls were starving (I'm not sure why???) and the idea of getting home at 2:30, unloading the car, THEN making lunch didn't sound appealing.  We stopped at McDonald's, across the street from Wal-Mart/Sam's (do you think they have those stores strategically placed to extract more money from people?), and *I* decided four 99cent cheeseburgers with NO drink or fries was sufficient and the cheapest.  We ate it on the ride home.

    I was exhausted for the rest of the afternoon and we had leftovers for dinner.  I'm just glad there were enough leftovers on a Tuesday to make a meal.  Normally, we have that on Fridays (my long day) and everything is tossed by the beginning of the week.

    Oh!  Oh!  I just realized a mistake I made yesterday . . . I bought Chirper a small PINK (!!!!) heart tag.  *HE'S* a MALE cat!  Oh wellllllllll, I bought the smallest size and I'm just going to believe he will grow bigger and need a larger size.  THEN, I'll buy blue that matches the *BLUE* (!!!!) collar I bought since I remembered on the collar aisle *HE* is a *MALE* cat! 

    WHERE WAS MY HEAD YESTERDAY????  (same place it always is, these days, I guess!!!)

    So there you have my yesterday and today.  Perhaps tomorrow will be about 13 things that didn't go as planned this week!!!!!

    Have a blessed day!  Be happy!

  • The Best Laid Plans for Tuesday

    We'll see if my day turns out anything close to resembling what I'm about to say I have planned!

    Going to Sam's for water and ground beef never happened yesterday.  I decided to focus on things I could complete, so as not to have "this and that" looming in the future to be finished.   One of my worst habits is to have 92  million things going at once, with nothing completed.  So . . .

    I finished the laundry except for my own sheets.  The guest room quilts and shams were done as well as mine and one last child's load of laundry.  I even washed the dog's bedding.  The guest room beds are remade.  I pulled out some ground beef around noon, and it thawed well enough to be browned at 5:30pm and made into vegetable beef soup.  We had some leftover whole wheat rolls from Friday's meal, and it made a tasty dinner.

    I homeschooled with the girls.  We accomplished a lot in the subjects I don't like teaching:  Community Helpers, Health, and History.  We never got to Science.  Rissy works daily on her reading and math skills.  I feel better after covering the material we did, as we are ahead of schedule.  I hate falling behind.  We talked a lot about "stranger danger" and made up a "Safe People" list that I will keep posted on the white board for a while.  That's how I was able to do so much laundry.  We sit at the kitchen table and the laundry area is close by.   Believe me, every time that dryer buzzed, I was on it - folding clothes, transferring things from the washer to the dryer, and starting a new load in the washer!

    Chirper made it through the day without Stormy attacking him.  I thought her good behavior might be over when, in the evening as we watched TV, she was sitting on the loveseat snoozing and he climbed up on the ottoman in front of her and sniffed *her* blanket.  If a cat's jaw can drop, hers did!!!  Then . . . he STEPPED on her blanket.  She actually tensed up and swallowed hard (more like a gulp) and eyed him like a hawk.  Jesse and I rolled with silent laughter until we had tears.  I was doing the voice-over for Stormy, whispering "her" thoughts, "Noooooo!  Not MY blanket!   That's  miiiiiiiine.  No way!  You're not going to lay DOWN on it, are you?  Not on MY BLANKET?????"  Chirper hopped down and there was a definitely sigh as Stormy's body relaxed.  I think "the blanket" might have been the invisible line she's drawn for crossing her tolerance level!!! 

    We locked him in the guest room, he feels very comfortable there, overnight.  I didn't want to be awakened to cats brawling in the hallway!  I need to get him a collar with his name tag & our phone # (Sampson needs one too), and put flea/tick treatment on both cats and the dog.  Jesse bathed Sampson Sunday night.

    He'll be locked up in "his" room today when we go to Sam's.  Rissy has a prescription we HAVE to pick up at the Wal-Mart up by Stephanie's apartment.  There is a Sam's next door.  I hate to drive that far, but she can't go without her allergy medicine until Friday, which is the next time we'll be up that way.  So, like it or not, I get to go to Sam's today.  A mile down the road is a PetSmart, so I COULD have a tag made for Chirper & Sampson while I'm at it.

    No other lofty goals.  Just the expensive trip in my gas guzzling Suburban to buy expensive groceries!  Rissy's prescription is on Wal-Mart's $4 list and, because of that, insurance doesn't pay for it.

    I will probably make something with ground beef for dinner again, since I'm buying that at Sam's.  I feel brain dead when it comes to ground beef creativity!!!  I'm also going to swallow hard and look at their steaks and roasts for some options other than ground beef or chicken breasts every night!  We can afford to do that in the summer months.  Also, I bought a turkey last week, and that's planned for sometime in the next few weeks.

    I'll share a few pictures from when Chirper woke up this morning.  I deleted a bunch, again.  He moves so quickly!  He walked out of his room.  Made himself cozy on the sofa.  I snapped his picture and he immediately was at MY end of the sofa.  I got one shot, before he was ready to jump down and explore.  Full of energy!  Youth!  I remember that - I think!

    See how skinny and tiny he still is?  And, yes, that is a jump rope we use to tie his double doors together!

    Cozied up on the sofa and, after the snap of the camera, he was checking me out!

    And then, gone in a flash!

    So am I!  Have a blessed day!

  • A New Monday, A New Start

    I'm slipping slowly behind in my chores, so this will be short paragraphs about all of our news!

    *  Never made it to Sam's on Friday to buy that ground beef.  Important "cat business" took precedence.  Maybe the girls and I can do that later this afternoon.  This whole week will be around 93 degrees with less than 20% chance of rain.  That's good (the no rain part) for Jesse's business, because he can catch up.  But, I don't know how he'll work (he has no help this year) each day in 90+ temps.  It's more than I could handle, I DO know that.

    *  I'm listening to my washer run.  The familiar sound at the start of each day!!!  After my little bit of laundry, I will wash the guest bedroom quilts and pillow shams.  The new cat definitely left his mark!

    *  The girls went out early to play with their squirt guns.  Bees chased them back inside.  Who wants to be inside during the summer months?  So unfair!  That's why I thought going to Sam's this afternoon would be a necessary trip (Jesse also needs lots of bottled water), despite the fact I detest shopping there without Jesse.

    * I really want to set up the small pool this week.  But it requires moving lots of their former jungle gym pieces and other large toys, then copiously sweeping each stone off the patio so a hole isn't poked into the bottom of the new pool.

    *  I'm starting a study of a certain item that always mysteriously shows up in my carpets.  (Lori K - don't spill the beans!) and will share it once I have collected enough photographic evidence.

    *  I still have pulled nothing from the freezer for tonight's meal.  Another reason to go to Sam's and get those chubs of ground beef.

    *  Jesse spent time (off and on) yesterday on the carpeted garage floor (still uncomfortable in the heat) trying to put together the charcoal grill he got for Father's Day.  I'm not sure he's liking the work we have caused him by not buying something pre-assembled!!!  Unfortunately, his shorts and shirts have to be taken back. Shorts were too big and shirts too hot, despite my attempt to find ones that were light weight.

    *  Everyone has made their beds except for me.  I'm seriously thinking of changing the sheets, but may wait until tomorrow since I have the guest room bedding today.  May not make my bed at all today (gasp!!! covering my mouth with my hand)!

    *  I have a lovely hissing sound coming periodically from under my dining room table.  Today, I deemed the new cat healthy enough to be let out of quarantine.  Two days on antibiotics should be sufficient.  He has gingerly explored the house and then run back to "his room" and then stepped out a little further each time.  I'm glad he feels secure in the guest room, because that's where I'll put him when we leave the house.  I don't trust him or the other pets to be left alone together, just yet.

    *  "The cat" has a name.  Chirper Elzabad.  (pronounced el-zay-bad)  Went through a variety of names, prayed and prayed, and came up blank until this morning.  Jesse started calling him "little bit" which is very fitting NOW.  But, what if he grows hearty like Stormy did???  So, we needed a name that would grow with him.  I seriously considered Chipper, because he is always chipper, but that would most likely be shortened to "Chip" the name of our cockatiel that died May 2007.  So, what's a pet parent to do?  I prayed and kept hearing Chirper (liked it better than just Chirp) and it was close enough to "Chirp" that he will still come when called.  Elzabad means:  "Given of God" - and no one can present a good argument that God didn't, indeed, give him to us.  We had considered "Nathan" which means (recompense - as in reward and/or replacement)  but calling "Nathan" down the street (or out the back door) might lead the neighbors to think we'd lost one of our many children!!!  So, Chirper Elzabad it is.

    *  Finally, it's nice to know we have a new "guard" in the house.  I'm not sure this is such a happy title for the one doing the guarding.  Poor Stormy has stationed herself under the formal dining room table and is maliciously watching Chirper explore his new territory . . . HER territory.  She is NOT happy at all, but at least hasn't gone after him - in fact, has run the opposite direction and only puffs up her fur.  She's only growled the first day. 

    She has finally stationed herself at a command post that pretty much gives her full view of when the "enemy" is approaching!

    I really MUST run!

  • Oops! 2nd Try Sunday

    Oops!  I forgot to upload two pictures.

    This is Kissy Kissy Rissy

    With our Kissy, Kissy Kitty.